For the longest time, I was convinced that I was the “victim” of my husband’s infidelity. I was sure that our divorce was 100% on…

Did you know I was a veterinarian? Yup. Small animal practice (dogs and cats) for 24 years. I loved it. Why would a vet become…

I have a pearl of wisdom for you to lean on: focus on fact over fault.  What does this mean? It means stop villainizing your…

The more I coach, the more I see patterns. This appeals to the nerdy scientist in me. Here is my latest discovery: In a high-conflict…

Do you ever find yourself watching the couples walking down the street hand-in-hand? Or sit at a restaurant and see a couple totally engaged in…

I bet your ex cheated. Mine did too. This is one of the most predictable ingredients of the high-conflict divorce and an integral part of…

I often speak with my clients about their path out of this stinky mess into their dream life. At the very minimum, this means creating…

If you think your husband owes you more than you are legally entitled to because he was an asshole or because he cheated – you…

Want to turn down the temperature of your high-conflict divorce? Stop tolerating the BS. Quit tolerating the BS from your kids, the ex, the ex’s new…

I am going to guess that your top goal for 2022 is a fair settlement both in terms of parenting and financially. You don’t want…